The good old Aussie mantra: “If it aint broke, don’t fix it”. We have all heard of it, and perhaps even been conditioned to believe it. This saying of old may well apply to farm machinery, but it should not be considered as an approach to our Christian walk, emotional health or relationships.
We may find ourselves feeling just fine as young people, or we learn how to come across that way to others as a protective mechanism. The truth is, just because we are young, does not mean we don’t require the innermost parts of ourselves to be transformed from within. Young people need renewal too, especially after experiencing tough family circumstances or feeling the sting of broken relationships.
“And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God”.
-Revelation 12:2
How often should one seek renewal? How can renewal be achieved?
We are all so different as individuals, although we are all designed to be relational beings. Our diversity of background leads to difference of opinion, this can overlay perspective. This can offer invaluable bearing and guidance over our Christian walks or relational experiences with others. After all, people matter most, and they have potential be our eternal friends when we help each other look to God, and his plan for each other. Renewal should be a constant feature in the background of our lives, as we reason together to maintain and sharpen our characters.
“Come now, and let us reason together, saith the LORD: though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they be red like crimson, they shall be as wool”.
-Isaiah 1:18
How can we humbly approach our potential eternal friends and assist them on their renewal journey?
We need to approach it in a way that is sensitive to our families or friends’ potential insecurities. The stance needs to be always to help, not to hinder. We need to be careful not to be overbearing or bossy. If we see our friends, family or significant other as God’s gift to us, we will be obligated to treat them correctly; with the love and care we receive from Jesus himself.
How can one find renewal after having their heart broken?
Let it be known that Jesus died on the cross, not from his physical afflictions, but a broken heart. It may seem that the pain will last forever, when rejection rules and the sting of broken relationships is all consuming. Time needs to be allowed in to the equation, feelings need to be felt and dealt with. The same God that was there during the memorable moments, will catch you here in the dumps too. Just lean on Him, and talk to Jesus about all. Be present in your family and in your friend groups. Fill the gaping hole left in your life with pure pleasures and avoid hostile thoughts and fleeting relapse relationships that often follow. Time is a healer, so keep busy and lean on the Lord.
Renewal is found in our Lord God, Jesus Christ. The closer we cling to him in tough or triumphant times, the faster we will be renewed. Time always seems to move at the same speed, but our actions will dictate the rate at which God can play a transforming role in our lives. Always look for the gems we can learn along life’s journey, and share them together, as well as pray and study together; Jesus will provide a way.
Let’s follow Him together.
“And he that sat upon the throne said, Behold, I make all things new. And he said unto me, Write: for these words are true and faithful”.
-Revelation 21:5
AUTHOR: Zakari Graovac, attends Albury SDA Church